Ndi dziko lotani limene tikufuna kwa ana athu?

Chithunzi chimene timanyamula

Taganizirani dziko limene mungafune kuti mwana alandire monga cholowa. Anthu ambiri amaona chinthu chofanana ndi ichi: nkhalango zamoyo, mizinda yabata moti mungamve mbalame, ndi misewu imene mwana angayendemo wopanda mantha. Tiyeni titenge chaka cha 2040 ngati chizindikiro cha m'mphepete mwa thambo. Si lonjezo ndipo si kuneneratu. Palibe amene akudziwa zimene chaka chimenecho chidzabweretsa. Ndi chithunzi, ndipo chithunzi chimatithandiza kusankha njira yoyendamo.

Nkhaniyi ikunena za njira imeneyo. Siikunena kuti dziko lidzasintha pa tsiku linalake. Ikukuitanani kufunsa funso lomveka lalikulu koma lomwe limakhala laumwini: ndi dziko lotani limene tikufuna kwa ana athu, ndipo ndi chinthu chimodzi chiti chimene ndingachite pa ilo lero?

Nkhalango zamoyo, mizinda yabata, ana otetezeka

Tiyeni titenge chithunzicho gawo ndi gawo. Nkhalango zamoyo zimabwera poyamba, chifukwa nkhalango zili pafupi ndi mpweya wathu. Nyanja zimapereka gawo lalikulu kwambiri la okisijeni padziko lapansi, nthawi zambiri limanenedwa kuti ndi pafupifupi theka. Zotsalazo zimachokera ku nkhalango, udzu ndi zomera zina. Mpweya uliwonse umene mwana amakoka uli ndi ntchito yaying'ono ya zimenezo. Dziko lapansi lamoyo si chikhumbo chongoganizira. Ndi mpweya womwe uli m'mapapo a mwana.

Mizinda yabata imabwera yachiwiri. Bata si kusowa kwa phokoso kokha. Ndi malo amene anthu amakhala ndi nthawi yozindikirana. Chitetezo chimabwera chachitatu. Ndicho chosavuta kunena ndi chovuta kwambiri kumanga. Anthu ambiri amaona kuti mwana amakhala womasuka pamene akuluakulu amasamalira osati ana awo okha komanso wina ndi mnzake.

Kumene dziko lotere limachokera

Dziko lotere silibwera ndi chisankho chimodzi pa tsiku limodzi. Limapangidwa ndi zinthu zazing'ono zimene anthu amachita mobwerezabwereza: momwe timalankhulira ndi mnansi, zimene timathokoza, kumene timaika chidwi chathu. Dziko limenelo limamangidwa ndi zimene timachita tsiku ndi tsiku.

Padziko lapansi pali anthu pafupifupi mabiliyoni 8. Anthu awiri aliwonse amagawana pafupifupi 99.9 peresenti ya DNA yawo, mawu amene mabungwe ofufuza za DNA ya anthu amawabwereza kwambiri. Mpweyanso timagawana. Mphepo imasakaniza mlengalenga nthawi zonse, choncho mpweya umene mukukoka lero ukhoza kuti posachedwapa unali pamwamba pa kontinenti ina. Mwana wokhala mbali ina ya dziko lapansi ndi mwana wanu, mphwanu kapena mwana wa mnansi wanu amapuma kuchokera ku thambo limodzi.

Nazi njira zazing'ono zoyambira:

• Nenani zikomo chifukwa cha mpweya wanu kamodzi patsiku.
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Chifukwa chiyani kuyamba ndi kuthokoza

Ndi koyenera kufunsa kuti mphindi imodzi yopuma ili ndi chiyani chokhudza nkhalango ndi ana. Palibe, ngati tikuyembekeza kuti ibzala mitengo. Ili ndi kanthu, ngati tifunsa zimene imachitira munthu amene akukhala nayo. Mu kafukufuku wa 2003 wa Emmons ndi McCullough, wofalitsidwa mu Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, anthu amene nthawi zonse ankalemba zimene amathokoza nthawi zambiri ananena kuti amamva bwino kuposa magulu oyerekezera. Ndi zotsatira zodzichepetsa, ndipo sitilonjeza zoposa zimene zikusonyeza.

Anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kuthokoza chifukwa cha mpweya pang'onopang'ono kumasanduka kusamalira malo kumene mpweyawo umachokera. Si lamulo lotsimikizika. Ndi chiyembekezo, ndi chifukwa chomveka choyesera.

Dziko la ana ndi njira, osati kuneneratu. Timayenda kulowera kumeneko ndi zimene timachita lero.